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No, you’re not losing your mind. You’re sleep deprived.

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Babies don’t sleep. They just don’t. Not like we do.

They don’t operate on a 24-hour cycle, nor do they have any regard for night or day. They can be up to six months old before they begin to show any sense of functional consistency and may be years old before they stop night waking. All this to say, there are legions of sleep deprived parents out there in the world, going about their days in a time-warped slow motion, feeling anything other than themselves.

As a sleep-deprived parent you may find yourself the butt of many jokes or on the end of pitying looks as family and friends – sometimes even strangers –recall ‘the slog’ of their own early parenting days before dishing out supremely unhelpful comments like ‘What else did you expect?’ We’ve all been there. The chances are you’re there right now.

If only it were a laughing matter. But the effects of sleep deprivation are real. You may find it hard to concentrate, suffer memory lapses, mood swings, anxiety, elevated stress, slurred speech, lose your libido, put on weight and even find you have a low immunity making you less able to fend off bugs. At its extreme, studies have shown sleep deprivation can lead to brain damage. That sleep deprivation has been used as a means of torture for centuries says it all really. 

For those of us who have always enjoyed – or survived on – a good night’s sleep, the lack of sleep that comes with being a parent can be a shock. No, debilitating. Of course, some days are better than others and it’s incredible how quickly you can return to baseline with a good night’s sleep, that feeling of being a new person again hard to top.  

Not so long ago, the idea of being able to survive on little sleep may have held some kudos; ‘successful’ people championing themselves on needing as little as two to three hours a night. How we marvelled that Margaret Thatcher could run a country on four hours sleep is, frankly, ridiculous knowing what we know now; that persistent lack of sleep is directly linked to an increased risk of dementia and Alzheimer’s. Yep, that ship has sailed. Boasting about how little sleep you need is really only a race to the bottom. Sleep is not, ‘just for wimps’.

As a new parent you may covet the enviable extensive sleeping hours of today’s teenagers and your younger self, but instead, ask how is it they can sleep for so long? It is not because they are ‘lazy’. It’s because their brains and bodies are developing at such rapid speed it necessitates the factory reset that sleep brings. Wanting more sleep does not make you lazy. Instead, it shows a healthy regard for your own physical and mental well-being.

According to the US National Institute of Health, ‘When one sleeps the brain reorganizes and recharges itself, and removes toxic waste by-products which have accumulated throughout the day…a minimum of seven hours of daily sleep seems to be necessary for proper cognitive function.’ Seven hours. A luxury if you’re a new parent. And toxic waste? No wonder you’re feeling so rubbish.

In their paper The Neuroprotective Aspects of Sleep, Andy R Eugene and Jolanta Masiak write “Essentially, sleeping acts as a garbage collector that comes during the night and removes the waste product left by the brain. This allows the brain to function normally the next day when one wakes up from slumber.” Clinically, this is known as the brain’s glymphatic system. We can now appreciate how not getting enough sleep physically alters the chemical balance in your brain, hence the title of this post; You’re not losing your mind, you’re just sleep deprived.

What’s worse, in a punishing twist, the states produced by sleep deprivation can actually make it harder to sleep. Anxiety and depression brought on by poor sleep patterns can often cause insomnia so that you may find when your baby is finally sleeping, frustratingly, you cannot.

So, what is going on in your brain when you are sleeping? Well, sleep turns off the norepinephrine (a stress hormone), serotonin (modulates mood) and histamine (immunity) neurotransmitters, allowing their receptors to rest. Now we can see directly the consequences of not getting enough sleep; the elevated stress levels, a struggle to make a proportionate response to an emotional event, of feeling constantly under the weather – every day a battle. Now we can understand what is happening to us.

And in today’s world of peak perfection and productivity, of having heightened expectations, increased stimulations, technology on tap, of always being ‘on’, of problems being solved in a ‘hack’ we can consume on TikTok then we may be feeling the effects of sleep deprivation more than our predecessors – and its negative effect on our psyche.

But it’s not all bad. It won’t last forever (trust, us, it really won’t). You will get through it. Your children will grow and sleep. Until they do, there are things you can do to address the slump you feel, to try and rebalance your brain and body and feel more like yourself.

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Parenting survival kit: tools to help you function on zero sleep during parenthood.

Parenting survival kit: tools to help you function on zero sleep during parenthood.

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Understanding the impact of sleep deprivation on parents.

Parenthood is a beautiful and rewarding journey, but it comes with its fair share of challenges. One of the biggest hurdles that parents face is sleep deprivation. As a parent, you quickly realise that sleep becomes a precious commodity, and sometimes, it feels like an elusive dream. Understanding the impact of sleep deprivation on parents is crucial in navigating this challenging phase of life.

Sleep deprivation not only affects your energy levels but also takes a toll on your overall well-being. It can lead to increased irritability, difficulty concentrating, and a weakened immune system. As a parent, it’s important to recognise these effects and find ways to cope with them. Being aware of the impact of sleep deprivation allows you to plan your day and work tasks accordingly, ensuring that you don’t overload yourself with responsibilities.

The importance of self-care during parenthood.

When you become a parent, it’s easy to put your own needs on the back burner. However, taking care of yourself is essential for your well-being and your ability to function as a parent. Self-care is not selfish; it’s a necessary part of being a good parent. Sleep is a fundamental aspect of self-care that should not be neglected.

Make it a priority to create a sleep routine for yourself. Establish a consistent bedtime and create a relaxing pre-sleep routine to signal to your body that it’s time to wind down. Avoid stimulating activities before bed, such as scrolling through your phone or watching intense TV shows. Instead, opt for calming activities like reading a book or taking a warm bath. By prioritising your own sleep, you’ll be better equipped to handle the challenges of parenthood.

Why sleep is fundamental for parents.

Sleep is not a luxury; it’s a necessity, especially for parents. It is during sleep that our bodies and minds rejuvenate and repair. Lack of quality sleep can lead to a decrease in cognitive function, making it difficult to concentrate and make decisions. As a parent, being well-rested is crucial for your ability to care for your child effectively.

When you’re sleep deprived, it’s important to understand that you won’t be able to function at your full capacity. Accepting this reality allows you to manage your day and workload more effectively. Instead of striving for perfection, focus on doing tasks to the best of your ability. Remember, “good enough is good enough.” By setting realistic expectations and prioritising your tasks, you can conserve your energy and avoid burnout.

Be aware: you need to be aware that you’re sleep deprived.

It’s important to be mindful of your tiredness and its impact on your daily life. Acknowledging your state of sleep deprivation helps you accept it and manage it more effectively. By recognising your limitations, you can adjust your workload and tasks accordingly. Avoid overloading your day, as you know that your quality of work will be compromised when you’re tired.

To manage your sleep deprivation, it’s essential to keep your workload manageable. Don’t take on more tasks than necessary and don’t be afraid to ask for help. Lean on your support system and delegate tasks whenever possible. By lightening your load, you can ensure that you have enough energy to care for your child and yourself.

Focus on good enough & not perfection.

When you’re sleep deprived, aiming for perfection becomes a difficult and often unattainable goal. Instead, focus on doing tasks to the best of your ability and accepting that “good enough is good enough.” It’s okay to set aside tasks that require more attention to detail for a time when you’re better rested. Allow yourself the grace to prioritise and accomplish what truly matters.

Repetitive and monotonous tasks can be particularly challenging when you’re tired. Instead of choosing these tasks because they seem easy, find ways to keep things fresh. Take regular breaks, engage in conversations with colleagues, and find creative ways to mix up boring tasks. By infusing variety into your day, you can combat drowsiness and stay engaged in your work.

Focus on the most important tasks.

When you’re sleep deprived, your productivity naturally decreases. It’s crucial to focus on completing the most important tasks of the day and avoid multitasking. Multitasking can lead to mistakes and increased stress when you’re tired. Prioritise your responsibilities and tackle them one at a time, giving each task the attention it deserves.

If possible, delegate tasks to others. Parenthood is a time when leaning on the help of your team is essential. By sharing the workload, you can ensure that the most important tasks are accomplished while conserving your energy for your child and yourself. Don’t be afraid to ask for support and embrace the power of teamwork.

Postpone big decisions.


When you’re tired and exhausted, it’s best to avoid making big decisions. Sleep deprivation affects our cognitive abilities, limiting our thinking and problem-solving skills. Recognise that this state of reduced capacity is not permanent and delay big decisions until you’re properly rested. With a clear perspective and a well-rested mind, you’ll be better equipped to make informed choices.

Allow yourself the time and space to make important decisions when you’re in the best mental state. Postponing big decisions is not a sign of weakness; it’s a wise strategy to ensure that you’re making choices that align with your long-term goals and values.

Embracing the challenges of parenthood & finding balance.

Parenthood is a journey filled with both joys and challenges. Sleep deprivation is one of the biggest hurdles that parents face, but it doesn’t have to overshadow the joy of raising a child. By understanding the impact of sleep deprivation, prioritising self-care, and managing your workload, you can navigate this phase of life more effectively.

Remember, it’s essential to be aware of your tiredness, focus on doing tasks to the best of your ability, and avoid overloading yourself with responsibilities. Embrace the mantra that “good enough is good enough” and infuse variety into your day to combat monotony. Prioritise the most important tasks and seek support from your team whenever possible.

And most importantly, postpone big decisions until you’re well-rested and able to think clearly. By taking care of yourself and making sleep a priority, you’ll be equipped to handle the challenges of parenthood with grace and find a balance that works for you.

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Nurturing love: healing relationship woes after parenthood.

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Parenthood is a transformative journey filled with joy, but it can also present challenges to relationships. The post-childbirth phase often brings about unique stressors that can strain the bond between partners . This article explores effective strategies for healing relationships after parenthood, resolving issues, and rekindling love amidst the challenges of raising a child.

Resolving relationship issues: post-childbirth strategies.

The period following childbirth is often marked by an array of emotions and adjustments that can strain the dynamics of a relationship. To facilitate relationship healing, it’s crucial to employ post-childbirth strategies that prioritize effective communication and understanding. Couples should openly express their feelings, expectations, and concerns, fostering an environment where both partners feel heard and supported.

Rekindling post-baby.

Rekindling love after becoming parents requires intentional effort. Amidst the exhaustion and new responsibilities, couples must prioritize nurturing their emotional connection. Planning regular date nights, expressing gratitude for each other’s contributions, and finding shared activities are essential steps in fostering intimacy and reigniting the spark that may dim amidst the challenges of parenthood.

Mending relationships as parents.

Parenthood often unveils pre-existing relationship issues, making it imperative to take deliberate steps to mend any rifts that may arise. Communication is key in this process, but beyond that, couples need to identify specific actions to address underlying concerns. This might involve setting realistic expectations, defining roles and responsibilities, and actively working towards shared goals.

Healing steps for parental relationship issues.

Healing relationship issues in parenthood requires a combination of self-reflection and mutual effort. Couples should take steps to enhance their understanding of each other’s perspectives, practice empathy, and actively listen. Recognizing that both partners may be navigating their unique challenges can foster a sense of unity in overcoming obstacles, laying the foundation for a healthier relationship.

Amidst the sleepless nights and countless responsibilities, it’s crucial for couples to focus on nurturing their love. This involves acknowledging each other’s efforts, celebrating small victories, and maintaining a sense of humour. Nurturing love post-parenting challenges requires a mindset shift, valuing the partnership amidst the chaos and finding joy in the shared journey of raising a child.

5 steps: resolving relationships issues post-birth.

Communication is Key

Effective communication is the bedrock of a healthy relationship, particularly after becoming parents. Clear, open, and honest communication is vital in resolving conflicts, understanding each other’s needs, and staying connected emotionally. Regular check-ins, where both partners have the opportunity to express their feelings and concerns, can strengthen the foundation of the relationship.

Managing Expectations

One of the significant challenges after becoming parents is managing expectations. Roles and responsibilities shift, and couples may find themselves grappling with unmet expectations. To navigate this, it’s crucial to have open conversations about individual needs, redefine roles based on practical considerations, and set realistic expectations that both partners can strive to meet.

Seeking Professional Help

When relationship issues persist or become more complex, seeking professional help can be a valuable step in the healing process. Couples therapy or counselling offers a safe space for partners to explore their concerns, improve communication skills, and work towards a healthier relationship. Professional guidance can provide insights and tools that may not be readily apparent in day-to-day interactions.

Quality Time Together

Finding quality time for each other amidst the demands of parenthood is essential for relationship healing. Whether it’s a simple at-home date night, a walk in the park, or even a brief moment of connection during a hectic day, prioritizing quality time helps strengthen the emotional bond. It’s a reminder that, beyond the roles of mom and dad, there exists a foundation of love and partnership.

Celebrating Achievements

Celebrating achievements, no matter how small, is a powerful strategy for relationship healing after parenthood. Expressing gratitude for each other’s contributions, acknowledging efforts, and celebrating milestones creates a positive atmosphere in the relationship. This practice fosters a sense of appreciation and mutual support, crucial elements in navigating the complexities of parenthood together.


Navigating the path of relationship healing after parenthood demands dedication, understanding, and a commitment to evolving as a couple. By implementing strategies to resolve issues, rekindling love, and taking proactive steps to nurture the relationship, couples can not only weather the challenges of parenting but emerge with a stronger and more resilient bond. Parenthood is a shared journey, and the commitment to nurturing love post-parenthood challenges is the foundation for a lasting and fulfilling relationship.

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How parental roles shape & influence self-identity.

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Becoming a parent is a profound and life-altering experience. It is a journey that not only involves taking care of a child but also involves navigating the complex realm of self-identity. Parental roles have a significant impact on how individuals perceive themselves and how they fit into the world. This article delves into the exploration of parental identity and its influence on self-identity.

Understanding self-identity.

Self-identity refers to how individuals perceive themselves, their beliefs, values, and characteristics that shape their sense of self. It is the foundation upon which we build our lives and make choices. Understanding self-identity is crucial as it plays a fundamental role in our well-being, relationships, and overall satisfaction with life.

The impact of parenthood on self-identity.

Parenthood is a transformative experience that brings about significant changes in an individual’s self-identity. The arrival of a child alters priorities, values, and responsibilities. The once independent and carefree individual must now adapt to the demands of being a parent. This transition can be both exciting and challenging as individuals navigate the changes that parenthood brings.

Parental identity exploration: navigating the changes.

As individuals embark on the journey of parenthood, they often find themselves exploring their parental identity. This exploration involves understanding and embracing the new roles and responsibilities that come with being a parent. It requires individuals to redefine themselves in the context of their new family dynamic.

Navigating these changes can be a complex process. Some individuals may find it difficult to let go of their pre-parenthood identity, while others may struggle to find a balance between their parental role and their personal desires. It is essential to recognize that this exploration is a natural part of the journey and that it takes time to fully embrace and integrate the new identity.

How parental roles shape and influence self-identity.

Parental roles play a significant role in shaping and influencing self-identity. For example, the role of a caregiver may lead to a heightened sense of compassion and nurturing qualities, while the role of a provider may create a sense of responsibility and determination.

Sleep deprivation, changes in routines, and the constant demands of caring for a child can leave individuals feeling exhausted and uncertain about their new identity.

Additionally, societal expectations and pressures can also contribute to the challenges of adapting to parenthood. There may be a sense of comparison to other parents or pressure to conform to certain parenting styles. These external influences can further complicate the process of establishing a solid self-identity as a parent.

Strategies for managing identity changes during parenthood.

Managing identity changes during parenthood requires self-reflection, self-compassion, and open communication. Here are some strategies to navigate this transformative journey:

Embrace the changes: Recognise that parenthood will bring about changes in your self-identity. Embrace these changes and view them as opportunities for personal growth.

Self-care: Prioritise self-care to maintain a sense of self amidst the demands of parenthood. Take time for yourself, engage in activities that bring you joy, and seek support from loved ones.

Open communication: Maintain open and honest communication with your partner about your feelings, concerns, and experiences. Sharing your journey with someone who understands can provide a sense of validation and support.

Establish boundaries: Set clear boundaries between your parental role and your personal life. Find a balance that allows you to fulfil your responsibilities as a parent while also nurturing your own needs and interests.

Seek support: Reach out to support groups, parenting classes, or professional counsellors who can provide guidance and reassurance during this transformative phase.


Parenthood brings about significant changes in self-identity. By acknowledging the challenges, exploring the changes, and implementing strategies for self-care and communication, individuals can find a sense of balance and fulfilment in their new identity as parents. Embrace the journey and allow parenthood to shape and influence your self-identity positively.

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Balancing parenthood & career: tools for adapting work patterns & reducing commitments.

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One of the most significant challenges faced by working parents is finding the right balance between their career and family responsibilities. In today’s fast-paced world, where the demands of work seem to be ever-increasing, it can be overwhelming to juggle both roles effectively. However, with the right strategies and adjustments to work patterns, it is possible to strike a harmonious balance between parenthood and a successful career.

The challenges of balancing parenthood and a career.

Balancing parenthood and a career can be a daunting task. As a parent, there is a constant pressure to meet the needs of your children, while simultaneously excelling in your professional life. The demands of parenthood, such as childcare responsibilities, school events, and medical appointments, can often clash with work obligations, leading to feelings of guilt and stress.

Adapting work patterns in parenthood.

Adapting work patterns is crucial for parents who wish to strike a balance between their career and family life. Traditional 9-to-5 work models may not always be feasible for parents, especially those with young children. By exploring flexible work arrangements, such as remote work or flexible hours, parents can create a work schedule that accommodates their family’s needs.

Adjusting work commitments in parenting.

Adjusting work commitments is an essential aspect of balancing parenthood and a career. Parents need to evaluate their current work commitments and identify areas where adjustments can be made. This may involve re-evaluating priorities, delegating tasks, or even considering a career change if the current job does not align with their family goals.

One effective strategy is to establish clear boundaries between work and family time. Set specific hours for work and dedicate uninterrupted time to your children during non-work hours. This separation helps create a sense of structure and allows parents to be fully present in both roles without feeling overwhelmed or guilty.

Redefining work patterns.

Navigating the complex terrain of parenting and employment often requires redefining work patterns. It involves thinking outside the box and finding innovative ways to integrate work and family life. This may include negotiating for reduced hours, exploring job-sharing arrangements, or even starting a home-based business or freelancing.

Work adaptations for successful parenthood.

While every family’s circumstances are different, there are some general strategies that can help parents navigate this challenging journey of parenthood successfully.

Your employer should be open and clear about your needs, concerns, and possible work arrangements. By fostering an understanding and supportive work environment, parents will feel more confident and comfortable managing work and family responsibilities.

Build a network of support from family, friends, and your community to relieve some of the pressures of parenting. This can include sharing childcare responsibilities, sharing a carpool with other parents, or even joining parenting support groups.

Work-life balance tips for working parents.

Finding a work-life balance is an ongoing process that requires conscious effort and self-reflection. Here are some additional tips to help working parents achieve a healthy balance:

  • Learn to say no to non-essential commitments that may take valuable time away from your family. Identify your most important tasks and complete them first.
  • Establish clear boundaries between work and family time. Inform colleagues of your availability and avoid taking work calls during family time.
  • Sharing the load can relieve some of the stress, whether you hire a babysitter or ask your partner to take on more responsibilities.
  • Set aside time for self-care activities, such as exercise, meditation, or hobbies. Being present for your family and taking care of yourself is crucial.
  • Put away distractions, such as your phone, when you are with your family, so you can be fully present. Make lasting memories of these moments.


Balancing parenthood and a career is undoubtedly a challenge, but with the right strategies and adjustments to work patterns, it is possible to find harmony between the two. By adapting work commitments, exploring flexible work arrangements, and redefining work patterns, parents can create a more balanced and fulfilling life for themselves and their families. Remember, it is not about achieving perfection in every aspect of life but rather finding a work-life integration that brings joy and satisfaction. With determination, support, and a willingness to make necessary changes, working parents can thrive both personally and professionally.

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Breaking the stigma: A comprehensive guide to parental depression & low mood.

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Understanding parental depression & low mood

Parental depression and low mood are common but often misunderstood conditions that can have a significant impact on both parents and their children. It is crucial to recognise and understand the signs and symptoms of parental depression in order to provide appropriate support and intervention. Parental depression refers to the presence of depressive symptoms in one or both parents, while low mood encompasses a broader range of negative emotions that may not meet the criteria for a clinical diagnosis of depression.

Depression is a complex condition that can manifest differently in individuals. Some common signs of parental depression include persistent sadness, loss of interest in activities, fatigue, changes in appetite and sleep patterns, irritability, and difficulty concentrating. It is important to note that not all parents experiencing depression will exhibit the same symptoms, and the severity and duration of these symptoms can vary. Low mood, on the other hand, can encompass feelings of sadness, frustration, anger, or general dissatisfaction with life.

Impact of parenthood on mental well-being

When a parent experiences depression or low mood, it can have a profound impact on their children’s emotional well-being and development. Children are highly observant and sensitive to changes in their parents’ mood and behaviour, and they may internalise their parent’s emotions, leading to feelings of confusion, guilt, or blame. Parental depression can affect a child’s sense of security, disrupt attachment patterns, and hinder their social and emotional development.

Strategies for combating low mood in parents

There are numerous resources and support systems available for parents dealing with depression and low mood. Online platforms and apps, such as Pareful, provide a wealth of educational resources, articles, and forums where parents can find information, share experiences, and connect with others facing similar challenges. Professional organisations, such as mental health associations and parenting support networks, can also provide valuable resources and referrals to qualified healthcare providers.

Mental health challenges of motherhood

One of the biggest challenges faced by mothers experiencing depression or low mood is the stigma associated with mental health issues. There is often a societal expectation that parents should always be happy and emotionally available for their children, which can lead to feelings of shame, guilt, and isolation for those struggling with depression.

Education and raising awareness are key in challenging and dispelling misconceptions about parental depression. By sharing personal stories, providing accurate information, and promoting empathy and understanding, we can help shift the narrative and create a culture of acceptance and support.

Coping with parental depression

Managing depression or low mood as a parent can feel overwhelming, but there are strategies that can help alleviate symptoms and improve overall well-being. It is important to develop a support network of friends, family, or support groups who can offer understanding, encouragement, and practical help when needed. Engaging in activities that bring joy and relaxation, such as hobbies, exercise, or mindfulness practices, can also be beneficial for mental health.


Breaking the stigma surrounding parental depression and low mood needs open conversations, understanding, and practical strategies. Through addressing postnatal depression, understanding the effects of parenthood on mental well-being, and adopting mindfulness, meditation, and gratitude practices, parents can deal with the difficulties while prioritizing their mental health. Our comprehensive resources aim to provide valuable insights and actionable tips to enable parents to strive for mental well-being and challenge the stigma associated with parental mental health difficulties.

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How to keep your energy levels up as a parent.

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Being a parent is one of the most rewarding and challenging jobs in the world. It can be exhausting, both physically and mentally. With the demands of family life, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed and drained of energy. However, with these few tips and tricks, you can find ways to remain energised as a parent.

Create Boundaries

It’s important to set boundaries for yourself and your family. Having clear expectations for how much time and energy you spend on tasks will help prevent burnout. Set limits on how much time you spend on activities such as housework or errands, so that you can focus more on your family and take some downtime for yourself.

Prioritise Self Care
Self-care is essential for any parent—it helps build resilience and maintain balance during difficult times. Take time out of each day to do something just for yourself—whether it’s reading a book, going for a walk, or meditating—and make sure that it’s something that brings joy into your life. This will help you recharge and give you more energy to devote to parenting when needed.

Schedule Breaks
Having regular breaks throughout the day can be an effective way to give yourself a mental break from parenting duties while still managing your time efficiently. Plan mini-breaks throughout the day where you can step away from your tasks for 10-15 minutes at a time; this gives your mind a chance to rest without feeling guilty about taking too much time away from your responsibilities.


Staying energised as a parent isn’t always easy but with these tips in mind, it can become more manageable. Remember that self-care is essential; if you don’t take care of yourself first, then you won’t have enough energy left over for your family. So find ways that work best for you—whether it be setting boundaries, taking breaks throughout the day or scheduling time just for yourself—to ensure that you have enough energy to get through each day with ease.


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How to recharge & improve your sleep quality.

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As a parent, you know all too well how hard it can be to get a good night’s sleep. From taking care of your little ones to worrying about their future, there never seems to be enough time in the day for you to rest and recharge. Thankfully, there are some ways that you can improve your sleep quality as a parent. Let’s take a look at how you can get the restful sleep you deserve.

Create A relaxing environment before bedtime
Creating a relaxing atmosphere before bedtime is essential for achieving better quality of sleep. Try dimming the lights, avoiding blue light from screens, and using white noise or music to create an environment that promotes relaxation. It may also help to have comfortable pillows, sheets, and blankets so that you don’t have any distractions while trying to drift off into dreamland.

Prioritise self-care during the day
Self-care is an important part of parenting, but it’s often neglected when faced with the demands of everyday life. However, self-care during the day can actually help improve your sleep quality at night. Make sure that you are taking regular breaks throughout the day for yourself—read a book or go for walks outside—and try to fit in at least 30 minutes of exercise per day. This will help keep your energy levels up and promote better sleep habits at night.

Set a consistent sleep schedule
Having a consistent sleep schedule is key when it comes to improving your overall sleep quality as a parent. This means setting regular times for going to bed and waking up each day—even on weekends! By keeping this routine, your body will naturally become more accustomed to getting tired around the same time each night which allows for deeper and more restorative sleep cycles throughout the night. Additionally, avoid naps during the day if possible because they can disrupt your nighttime sleep patterns if they are too long or taken too close to bedtime.

Getting enough restful sleep as a parent can seem like an impossible task at times but it doesn’t have to be! With these tips in mind—including creating a relaxing environment before bedtime, prioritising self-care during the day, and setting a consistent sleep schedule—you should soon find yourself sleeping soundly every night without worry or stress weighing on your mind (or keeping you up!). So grab those comfy pillows and snuggle up tight; sweet dreams await!


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5 ways to improve your sleep hygiene as a parent.

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Being a parent is one of the most rewarding, but also exhausting, experiences you will ever have. You are constantly on the go, taking care of your little ones and making sure they are happy and healthy. It’s no wonder that so many parents struggle to get a good night’s sleep! If you’re finding it hard to catch some Zs, here are five ways to improve your sleep hygiene.

1. Establish a regular sleep schedule.
One of the best ways to improve your sleep hygiene is to establish a regular sleep schedule. When your body is used to going to bed and waking up at the same time every day, it will be easier for you to fall asleep and stay asleep through the night. So, do your best to stick to a consistent bedtime and wake-up time, even on weekends.

2. Create a calm and relaxing bedtime routine.
Another way to help improve your sleep hygiene is by creating a calm and relaxing bedtime routine. This could involve taking a warm bath, reading a book, or stretching before getting into bed. By doing something calming before trying to sleep, you’ll be more likely to fall asleep quickly.

3. Make sure your bedroom is dark and quiet
Your bedroom should be a haven for rest and relaxation. To help make it more conducive for sleep, make sure it is dark and quiet. Consider investing in blackout curtains or an eye mask to block out any unwanted light, and use earplugs or white noise if you live in a noisy area.

4. Avoid caffeine late in the day
If you want to have a solid sleep through the night without any interruptions, avoid caffeine late in the day. Caffeine can stay in your system for up to eight hours, so if you drink it too close to bedtime, you may find it harder to drift off—and harder to stay asleep once you finally do fall asleep.

5. Put away all electronic devices at least 30 minutes before bedtime
It’s important to disconnect from electronics before trying to sleep because the blue light emitted from screens can interfere with your natural circadian rhythm and make it harder for your head to hit the pillow feeling sleepy. So, put away all electronics—including your phone, laptop, TV, etc at least 30 minutes before bedtime so you can unwind and relax in peace before trying to drift off for the night.

If you’re finding it difficult to get enough rest as a parent, know that you’re not alone! Many parents struggle with insomnia or poor sleep quality due largely in part due to chaotic schedules and stress levels that come with being responsible for tiny humans 24/7/365. However, there are things you can do proactively to improve your sleep hygiene starting with establishing (and sticking) to regular sleep schedule; making sure your bedroom is dark quiet; avoiding caffeine later in day; unplugging from electronics screens at least 30 minutes before aimless tossing turning time; implementing a calming nighttime ritual (reading books in baths). All of these things will help zzz’s happen—and happen more deeply—so try some or all of them get to get your sleep back on track.

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The importance of avoiding parental burnout.

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Being a parent is one of the most rewarding, yet challenging roles an individual can have. Not only are you responsible for taking care of your own needs, but you are also responsible for taking care of the needs of your children. This can be extremely draining, both emotionally and physically. When you reach your limit, it is important to take a step back and focus on taking care of yourself, otherwise you run the risk of burning out.

Signs that you’re burning out

There are several different signs that you may be burning out as a parent. These include:

– Feeling constantly exhausted and run down
– Having difficulty staying focused or motivated
– Withdrawing from friends and activities that you once enjoyed
– Feeling irritable or angry more often than usual
– Experiencing physical symptoms such as headaches or stomachaches

If you find yourself experiencing any of these symptoms on a regular basis, it is important to take a step back and assess your current situation. Are there any areas in your life that you can delegate to someone else in order to lighten your load? What can you do to make sure that you are taking care of yourself both physically and mentally? Taking some time for yourself – even if it is just 30 minutes each day – can make a world of difference when it comes to preventing burnout.

No one ever said that being a parent was easy. In fact, it is probably one of the most challenging roles an individual can have. It is important to remember, however, that it is okay to take a break every now and then. If you find yourself feeling burnt out, take some time for yourself in order to prevent further damage. Your children will still be there when you come back refreshed and rejuvenated.

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