After you have kids, it’s easy to feel like you’re losing yourself in the never-ending cycle of tending to their needs. You may feel like you’re just going through the motions and that you’re not really living. If this sounds familiar, then it’s time to take a step back and reconnect with your partner. Here are five ways to do just that.
Make time for each other
This may seem obvious, but it’s important to make time for each other, even if it’s just a few minutes a day. You can do this by wake up earlier than your kids or go to bed after they’re asleep. If you can’t find time during the day, then schedule a weekend getaway or a date night once every couple of weeks. The key is to make quality time for each other so that you can really connect.
Communicate openly and honestly
Be honest about how you’re feeling and what you need from your partner. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, tell them. If you need more help around the house, ask for it. Don’t be afraid to communicate your needs openly and honestly. It will only make your relationship stronger.
Be intimate with each other
Intimacy doesn’t just mean sex, although that’s important too. It means being close to each other in all ways – emotionally, mentally, and physically. Spend time cuddling, talking, and just being close to each other. This will help you feel connected on a deeper level.
Do things together as a family
It’s important to spend quality time together as a family, but it’s also important to do things together as a couple too. Whether it’s going for a walk, taking a yoga class, or cooking dinner together, find something that you both enjoy and make it a regular part of your life. Doing things together will help you feel connected as a couple while also giving you some much-needed individual time too.
Seek help when you need it
If you’re feeling disconnected from your partner and like nothing is working, don’t be afraid to seek help from a therapist or counselor who can help you work through any underlying issues. It’s important to get help when you need it so that you can address any problems head-on and start moving forward in your relationship.
Parenting is hard work but it’s so worth it when you have strong relationships with your partner and your children.. By making time for each other, communicating openly and honestly, being intimate with each other, doing things together as a family, and seeking help when needed, you can create lasting bonds that will weather any storm.
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